Whole life Self care through learning about the whole self. Dealing with what life sends day by day
Tool to help with grief
tool to use when dealing with grief and the pain of loss.
I would like to share with you a tool to help with the grief process of losing someone who has died.
I have used this tool over the years quite a few times with people who are going through that awful process of learning to live in this life without the person that they love.
So first of all find a picture of this wonderful soul. Put it in a place where you have to turn to it.
And then talk to the picture. Share all that you would have shared with them if they had been there in the physical world. Share the fun of the day, share the worries of the day and share the pain and the anger. It is perfectly ok to shout at the person and ask them, ‘Why did they leave you?’ They left you because they had to. But that doesn’t help with the letting go. So they quite understand that you have to be angry. And when you are doing this in the privacy of your own room and your own time, it is just a form of letting go. And then share all the joys all your hopes and ask them to help you in some way shape or form. It is not always your spirit people who are there sending you the help. They send their requests to the angels and the angels are the ones who actually make things happen and that actually help you. So don’t feel worried that you are holding your spirit friend back from developing because they actually want to help you to move forward as well because as you move forward so they move forward.
Ok once again get a picture of this wonderful person that you feel you have lost. Put it in a place where you actually have to physically go and sit down and look at it. And then share your day with that person share your life as you would have done here. And over time with this tool things will improve. I wish you joy I wish you happiness and until such time as you can let go I offer you my hand in friendship so that you may do this thing. Love and light Demici
53.721958-1.355397
Castleford, Castleford, West Yorkshire WF10 5BP, UK
Hi please enjoy the work that I place here and on my Facebook just look for Demici. or Rosemary Sladden.
My motto is 'My computer is my wheelchair'. Because I am dyslexic and the technology of the computer and the keyboard have helped me to communicate using the written word. So all I place here is my own work ably assisted by Grammarly and WordPress.
Who I am!
I am finding it hard to learn how to be retired. Maybe if I look at it as just doing the things I love to do?
Now I have time my ambition is to travel on every bus and train in England. The fun is to find out what is around and watch the countryside as I travel through it.
More fun is being a medium (talking to dead people and working with guides who take me to where I need to be) So I would love to serve every Spiritualist Churches in England.
My writings come from my life experiences and the learning that has taken me down many paths of interest. From becoming an intuitive Spiritual Life Coach, Spiritualist healer, Reiki master, medium, teacher, philosopher to being a mother, grandmother, landlady who shared her home with many other people. From working as a turkey farmhand to driving a forklift truck in a warehouse. From traveling across the world during my childhood to settling down in my own little cottage in the north of England.
I share it all here for those who are interested.
I have gained experience and obtained qualifications that are listed below. I use them to help me understand my life as well as to help any who asks me for help to understand and improve their lives.
Life Coach, I can help me to look at people as individuals living a life that is different from mine and yet some of the experiences that they face have taught me to see that we all have lessons to learn in this life and need support to learn them from time to time. I learned how to teach people how to look at life from a different understanding place so that they can see their own way forward.
I am still learning how to be the best medium I can become. So that I can offer that bridge/telephone line between the two worlds and join friends and family who have passed into the next world with those in this world who. My thought is that we all can and do achieve this all the time it is nothing special just sometimes we are so upset disoriented that we think we can't. IF we loved someone once we can always know them because the memory sits in our heart. Healers work with energy and guides and their own spirit self to help to provide the energy so that other people who are in need can repair their own Dis-Ease.
I have used this place to put some relaxation and self-help poems, videos, sound recordings, lead visualization meditations I hope you find them useful. Lookout in the near future for the video files that will be here when I find out how to make them and then put them here.
Philosophy comes through in the poems I write that you can read on my blog, I hope you like them. If you would like me to help you please contact me (say that you have come from this site please) and I will see what I/we can do to help.
Something about me as a person. I am a great grandmother and used to live in a shared house that was very busy most of the time. Now great quietness is all around me as I move to a new one-story terraced property. (cottage)
I have loved to travel all my life. Why do I like to travel? Because I meet all kinds of interesting people. Some of the stories are posted on here for you to read. I hope you like this place and if you do please feel free to send me feedback I love feedback good or bad!
love and light to all who visit Demici
View all posts by Demici
Demici Space 