Whole life Self care through learning about the whole self. Dealing with what life sends day by day
To days thoughts 8th Jan 2015
Hi my Facebook friends Happy new year. OH boy it is already the 8th Jan and the days are moving fast. I hope you managed to stay with your New Year resolutions if you did not then re-think them. Re-plan them. Start again and this time be kind to yourself. Do not set too big a task for yourself. Remember the story of the tortoise and the hare? The tortoise was willing to keep going and do a little plodding one step at a time till he got to the end. The hare well he stopped and started and stopped again. And then he forgot to watch the road so when he was napping tortoise he passed old hare. That is what happens to our good intentions. We set the goal too big and then we set off at a good pace but when the hill gets too steep we stop for a rest. Then we slide and one day becomes two days then three weeks and the year has gone.
That my friend is called procrastination (To put off doing something, especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness and to postpone or delay needlessly) I am as guilty as anyone else on this score; Hence my horror at seeing the date this day when I had a bill to pay. Yes I only notice the dates when something important happens. I dream my day away. Well to dream is fine that is how you find out what you want and what you don’t want. Then you have to put into practice that dream. Remember that film the Field of dreams? He built it and they came. So make this your motto for 2015. I build my dream and then they will see. Or rather I will see.
Yes do not wait for the first day of the year to make your resolution. Make it again today if like me you have slipped. Dream break down the dream into manageable steps and then plod one day at a time like the tortoise. Do not give yourself a bad time for failing as in the failing we often find what was wrong with the original plan. Start again and keep on starting again just like the song Pick your-self up and dust your-self off and start all over again.
Hi please enjoy the work that I place here and on my Facebook just look for Demici. or Rosemary Sladden.
My motto is 'My computer is my wheelchair'. Because I am dyslexic and the technology of the computer and the keyboard have helped me to communicate using the written word. So all I place here is my own work ably assisted by Grammarly and WordPress.
Who I am!
I am finding it hard to learn how to be retired. Maybe if I look at it as just doing the things I love to do?
Now I have time my ambition is to travel on every bus and train in England. The fun is to find out what is around and watch the countryside as I travel through it.
More fun is being a medium (talking to dead people and working with guides who take me to where I need to be) So I would love to serve every Spiritualist Churches in England.
My writings come from my life experiences and the learning that has taken me down many paths of interest. From becoming an intuitive Spiritual Life Coach, Spiritualist healer, Reiki master, medium, teacher, philosopher to being a mother, grandmother, landlady who shared her home with many other people. From working as a turkey farmhand to driving a forklift truck in a warehouse. From traveling across the world during my childhood to settling down in my own little cottage in the north of England.
I share it all here for those who are interested.
I have gained experience and obtained qualifications that are listed below. I use them to help me understand my life as well as to help any who asks me for help to understand and improve their lives.
Life Coach, I can help me to look at people as individuals living a life that is different from mine and yet some of the experiences that they face have taught me to see that we all have lessons to learn in this life and need support to learn them from time to time. I learned how to teach people how to look at life from a different understanding place so that they can see their own way forward.
I am still learning how to be the best medium I can become. So that I can offer that bridge/telephone line between the two worlds and join friends and family who have passed into the next world with those in this world who. My thought is that we all can and do achieve this all the time it is nothing special just sometimes we are so upset disoriented that we think we can't. IF we loved someone once we can always know them because the memory sits in our heart. Healers work with energy and guides and their own spirit self to help to provide the energy so that other people who are in need can repair their own Dis-Ease.
I have used this place to put some relaxation and self-help poems, videos, sound recordings, lead visualization meditations I hope you find them useful. Lookout in the near future for the video files that will be here when I find out how to make them and then put them here.
Philosophy comes through in the poems I write that you can read on my blog, I hope you like them. If you would like me to help you please contact me (say that you have come from this site please) and I will see what I/we can do to help.
Something about me as a person. I am a great grandmother and used to live in a shared house that was very busy most of the time. Now great quietness is all around me as I move to a new one-story terraced property. (cottage)
I have loved to travel all my life. Why do I like to travel? Because I meet all kinds of interesting people. Some of the stories are posted on here for you to read. I hope you like this place and if you do please feel free to send me feedback I love feedback good or bad!
love and light to all who visit Demici
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